Do you think there is something wrong....

Do you think there is something wrong with a pretty girl/boy who doesnt have a bf yet? Like do you ask yourself what issues she has if her looks isnt getting her anywhere?

EDIT: To make it clear... I am not asking how important looks are (even though they are - its just that each individual has different standards) I am asking why would someone who seems to be able to get anyone they want - cant keep anyone - do you then ask yourself, hmmm there must be something wrong?

Thoughts and opinions?

No there's nothing wrong with you, what a stupid question :lol:DrSponge

Its not me genius... I have a bf.

[QUOTE="DrSponge"]No there's nothing wrong with you, what a stupid question :lol:Sajedene

Its not me genius... I have a bf.

Well then there's nothing wrong with your friend. Does it matter who it is?

Not everyone has to be in a relationship at all times, that's be insanity, there's nothing wrong with a girl/guy/transvestite who doesn't have a bf/gf/tf, it's just that, diving into something just because it's there is far worse than holding out for something potentially meaningful.

I have a gf before you accuse me of attempting justification.

No I'm not talking about choosing not to be in a relationship... I am talking about those who have the potential to bag a mate - but just cant seem to? There are people like that out there. Sajedene

Well, everyone on earth has the potential to bag a mate, I mean, even the world's fattest man has a gf, you seen that documentary? Anyways, sometimes it just doesn't work out at first, I mean, if she's never made a move, then she could alter her chances by doing that, making a first move, some guys (like me) are insecure about it all, my current gf made the first move on me, it was great, my ex, I made the first move, took me a month to work it up, so, you know. If she's willing to make a move, and tries a few times and still finds no receptive guy, well, then she needs to examine the types of guys she's asking. No one should ever alter themselves in any way to find a relationship, you'll always revert to what's natural, and if it's that different from who your are, the reversion will be a relationship killer.

Clearly they are not trying hard enough towards getting a man. Does this so called pretty girl have her eyes on any men.Has she chosen a particular man?kulmiye

Its not the getting that is difficult... its the keeping. And I know shes going to come crying to me again so I want some stuff to tell her because its getting quite repepetive.

Its not the getting that is difficult... its the keeping. And I know shes going to come crying to me again so I want some stuff to tell her because its getting quite repepetive.

Sajedene

That is where my advice stops sadly since I myself has yet to get a gf. Maybe you should tell her straight and say you don't want her crying on your shoulder and ask why she continously fails and keeping a guy. Maybe it has to do with other men in her life. Who knows?

Well I have had only 1 GF, and that only lasted 4 weeks, so is there something wrong with me? I think not as people get GF/BF at diferent times, You dont see all 12 year olds going out with someone at the same time.

Nah - shes not like shes dating the same type of jerks. I am really considering that she does sabotage the relationship in some way - whether shes conscious of it or not. I dont know - I've had her exes tell me shes either too clingy, or too distant, too emotional or too *starts with a b and ends in a y* Its all over the radar.

your friend sounds a lot like me, minus the crying part >_>Pearl_of_Egypt

Really? How so?

Nah - shes not like shes dating the same type of jerks. I am really considering that she does sabotage the relationship in some way - whether shes conscious of it or not. I dont know - I've had her exes tell me shes either too clingy, or too distant, too emotional or too *starts with a b and ends in a y* Its all over the radar.

[QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]your friend sounds a lot like me, minus the crying part >_>Sajedene

Really? How so?

I have lots of trouble with relationships. I mean I've had 3 but there are always 2-3 years between them where I can't find anyone I want to be with and they don't usually last long. sometimes I think there's something wrong with me :?

I have lots of trouble with relationships. I mean I've had 3 but there are always 2-3 years between them where I can't find anyone I want to be with and they don't usually last long. sometimes I think there's something wrong with me :?

Pearl_of_Egypt

Something probably is wrong especially when you mentioned exs.

[QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]

I have lots of trouble with relationships. I mean I've had 3 but there are always 2-3 years between them where I can't find anyone I want to be with and they don't usually last long. sometimes I think there's something wrong with me :?

MattUD1

one was, but that lasted about 2 months. the other 2 guys weren't though, then after a year and a half with the last one, he did turn out to be a jerk unexpectidely. I think I just have trouble trusting a person enough to be in a relationship with them, and that last relationship certainly didn't help.

[QUOTE="MattUD1"][QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]

I have lots of trouble with relationships. I mean I've had 3 but there are always 2-3 years between them where I can't find anyone I want to be with and they don't usually last long. sometimes I think there's something wrong with me :?

Pearl_of_Egypt

one was, but that lasted about 2 months. the other 2 guys weren't though, then after a year and a half with the last one, he did turn out to be a jerk unexpectidely. I think I just have trouble trusting a person enough to be in a relationship with them, and that last relationship certainly didn't help.

Depends.....quite possible there is something going on....not necessarily wrong. Every situation is different.

one was, but that lasted about 2 months. the other 2 guys weren't though, then after a year and a half with the last one, he did turn out to be a jerk unexpectidely. I think I just have trouble trusting a person enough to be in a relationship with them, and that last relationship certainly didn't help.

Pearl_of_Egypt

However, I found the guy that wants me and I'm happy being with him. :)