Do you think I should get my girlfriend a promise ring?

My girlfriend and I are going to be at our 4 month relationship this Wednsday and I have been thinking about giving her a promise ring or something very special like that. I've known her about 2 years and for alot of that time we were very good friends who liked each other but never dated. I turn 16 this August and she turns 16 in April. Her parents like me alot and my parents absolutly love her. Hah, even the other day her mom said Clarissa (her name) and me where going to have some 50 kids and me and Clair have talked about getting married during college or soon after. She and myself have dated a few other people but shes so much different. For the first time I honestly think I'm in love, one minute with her can feel like forever but hours seem like minutes. With other girls I dated I could see another girl and sometimes thing "Oh, I'd rather date her" or things like that, but with this girl, it's totally different. Other girls are just that...other girls. It don't matter if they have bigger 'things' or whatever, because they arn't MY girl. Clarissa and I have both told each other we want to get married someday, and I do want to get her a promise ring. I'm just not sure if I should give it to her on our 4 month or wait til something like a 1 year or just wait a few other months.

Can anybody offer me a little bit of advice? Anything would be great. (If it matters, my name is Jake)

uhhhh, have you ever seen that 70's show.. It doesn't turn out well.

How bout a chastity ring instead.. and her parents will like that!

Hell no man, don't do that. You're only 15, you think that 2,3, maybe 5 years from now you two will still be together? Just enjoy what you have now and don't worry about taking things to the next level. Otherwise, the realization of things actually becoming more serious between you two might scare her away. Get her some tickets to a Hannah Montana concert or whatever the hell you young kids are into these days and just have fun.elblanquito_81

lulz!! :)

Yeah, that sounds like a gre -- wait, your name is Jake?! Oh God no, I'm sorry, that changes everything. You aren't meant for each other. Cheat on her and take pictures.Dark__Link

:lol: TS, why would it matter that your name is Jake? C'mon, you're giving us Jakes a bad name.

[QUOTE="Dark__Link"]Yeah, that sounds like a gre -- wait, your name is Jake?! Oh God no, I'm sorry, that changes everything. You aren't meant for each other. Cheat on her and take pictures.jakecufc8888

:lol: TS, why would it matter that your name is Jake? C'mon, you're giving us Jakes a bad name.

Lol my bad bro. But yeah, I probley wont get her anything like that for a while. I just need to get her SOMETHING, you know?

If you are still together at 23 and are very happy with each other then sure go for it. 15-16 is too young for thoughts like that. Life can change A LOT for you during the next 5 years.

But what the hell do i know, blind leading the blind... :)

Wait longer.

A better present is a good body. Get like a ring that promises that you'll never get fat. Women often tend to appreciate that. But make her get one that promises the same thing. That'd be classy.

Wait longer.

A better present is a good body. Get like a ring that promises that you'll never get fat. Women often tend to appreciate that. But make her get one that promises the same thing. That'd be classy.

RKfromDownunder

I've wrestled since age 4 man. I go 171 and can bench 210 and have a six pack. I dont gotta worry bout gettin fat lol

[QUOTE="RKfromDownunder"]

Wait longer.

A better present is a good body. Get like a ring that promises that you'll never get fat. Women often tend to appreciate that. But make her get one that promises the same thing. That'd be classy.

--Sinister--

I've wrestled since age 4 man. I go 171 and can bench 210 and have a six pack. I dont gotta worry bout gettin fat lol

Your 171 LBS, and only bench 210.

Anyway back on topic, honeslty dude, do what your heart says, but I will say this, dont get married too soon. Wait untill your mid to late twenties.

Four months is way too early....LJS9502_basic

Indeed. Anything can happen in relationships unfortunately, so you have to take your time...Jake.

My girlfriend and I are going to be at our 4 month relationship this Wednsday and I have been thinking about giving her a promise ring or something very special like that. I've known her about 2 years and for alot of that time we were very good friends who liked each other but never dated. I turn 16 this August and she turns 16 in April. Her parents like me alot and my parents absolutly love her. Hah, even the other day her mom said Clarissa (her name) and me where going to have some 50 kids and me and Clair have talked about getting married during college or soon after. She and myself have dated a few other people but shes so much different. For the first time I honestly think I'm in love, one minute with her can feel like forever but hours seem like minutes. With other girls I dated I could see another girl and sometimes thing "Oh, I'd rather date her" or things like that, but with this girl, it's totally different. Other girls are just that...other girls. It don't matter if they have bigger 'things' or whatever, because they arn't MY girl. Clarissa and I have both told each other we want to get married someday, and I do want to get her a promise ring. I'm just not sure if I should give it to her on our 4 month or wait til something like a 1 year or just wait a few other months.

Can anybody offer me a little bit of advice? Anything would be great. (If it matters, my name is Jake)

--Sinister--

Do you think I should get my girlfriend a promise ring?...--Sinister--

My girlfriend and I are going to be at our 4 month relationship this...--Sinister--

...I turn 16 this August and...--Sinister--

...(If it matters, my name is Jake)--Sinister--

Dating four months, just turning 16. :o

A relationship like that doesn't need something like a promise ring. Just enjoy it dude and take it easy. Cranking up the commitment at that age and after just four months is not a good idea.

havent you seen that 70s show, this cant end wellclock_of_omens

first thing i thought of too, you need to watch The promise ring episode of that 70's show.

Wow... ong Gamespot and a girlfriend:P

Keep up the good work bro!

Not to be rude or anything but you're not even 16 yet and you plan on getting someone a promise ring after four month relationship. You're young and college will hit you like a ton of bricks being thrown from a building. Just wait till you go to college. If you manage to go out with her until college you'll be lucky to hold a decent relationship when you're in college. I've seen so many relationships die once college hits since you'll be separated for a long time. Plus there are so many temptations.

Who made up this promise ring crap? It's a total joke.Chutebox

exactly, same w/ marraige

[QUOTE="Chutebox"]Who made up this promise ring crap? It's a total joke.TheSonOfUgly

exactly, same w/ marraige

Most marriages end in devorce. I dont know why people are so quick to get hitched these days. Why so they can have to deal with all the crap that is divorce.

Don't do it right now. You'll never know what will happen. If you two last until the end of both your senior years in high school, then maybe. However, being young, and not having a big concept of the world, if such a thing happens, then you are blessed, but it is doubtful you will marry your high school sweetheart, and 4 is a long time, but maybe you both will be more serious if you last 2 years. A promis ring will just make things feel worse when life doesn't turn out so well. but if you two stay together, good luck with the future, and congratulations.SpootyHead

dam, you avatars cooler than mine

[QUOTE="SpootyHead"]Don't do it right now. You'll never know what will happen. If you two last until the end of both your senior years in high school, then maybe. However, being young, and not having a big concept of the world, if such a thing happens, then you are blessed, but it is doubtful you will marry your high school sweetheart, and 4 is a long time, but maybe you both will be more serious if you last 2 years. A promis ring will just make things feel worse when life doesn't turn out so well. but if you two stay together, good luck with the future, and congratulations.TheSonOfUgly

dam, you avatars cooler than mine

but we're on the same page, so it's all good. Pink Floyd's The WAll FTW!

[QUOTE="TheSonOfUgly"]

[QUOTE="SpootyHead"]Don't do it right now. You'll never know what will happen. If you two last until the end of both your senior years in high school, then maybe. However, being young, and not having a big concept of the world, if such a thing happens, then you are blessed, but it is doubtful you will marry your high school sweetheart, and 4 is a long time, but maybe you both will be more serious if you last 2 years. A promis ring will just make things feel worse when life doesn't turn out so well. but if you two stay together, good luck with the future, and congratulations.SpootyHead

dam, you avatars cooler than mine

but we're on the same page, so it's all good. Pink Floyd's The WAll FTW!

Hell Yeah!

Yeah, that sounds like a gre -- wait, your name is Jake?! Oh God no, I'm sorry, that changes everything. You aren't meant for each other. Cheat on her and take pictures.Dark__Link

That way you'll atleast have the good favor on OT.