Do you think America is an ageism country??
It seems that this nation overprotect the rights of kids while it neglects so many needs of elders.
and elders who live in US tend to feel more depressed and disrespected that those who live in EAST ASIA.
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Do you think America is an ageism country??
It seems that this nation overprotect the rights of kids while it neglects so many needs of elders.
and elders who live in US tend to feel more depressed and disrespected that those who live in EAST ASIA.
Well there is quite a disrespect for the elderly nowadays because, I don't know... we just take the elderly for granted, even though we are going to be like that one day...WestSideAznI know In Japan and China, young people respect elders a lot more... I just feel that old people deserve the same carings as other people... and I do not really understand why are Americans so caring to kids, which is the opposite way in Asia.
Yeah, I wouldn't know much about that type of stuff. I usually live under a rock long enough to miss the poor treatment to the old if there ever is any around here. I know I haven't done anything to my grandparents. That's because I barely even saw them.ernie1989May I know your race? However, in Japan, it is very important to respect elders. If a young person does not show respect to the elders, that person will be rebelled to death
My high school history teacher brought this very point up a few years back. I think there is a lot of truth to it. We tend to neglect the old thinking they are no use to society anymore, when in reality they hold the wisdom of the generations they lived through. Its unfortunate indeed. rimnet00Yes, American is probably the most ageism country in the world while Japan/China is probably the countries where insist "older-is-better" in the world.... It clearly explains why Chinese and Japanese have longer lifespans than US since US people r so virulent to senior citizens.
I would also like to add that it may be due to our view on our 'heroes'. Heroes in today's society for many youth is based on superficial and indestructible demi-gods, all of whom are portrayed to be young. Whether it is a current basketball player or the latest music artist. I think people tend to forget those who have done so much to bring us where we are today. This is a mentality I can't reality pinpoint the origin of, while at the same time acknowledging that the old are looked as nothing more then brittle and 'stupid' due to their age.rimnet00See, that is the main cultural difference Most heroes or idols in America are set to be 28 years old or younger; meanwhile, most heroes in Japan and China r portraited to be middle-aged with so many years of experience.
Yeah, I wouldn't know much about that type of stuff. I usually live under a rock long enough to miss the poor treatment to the old if there ever is any around here. I know I haven't done anything to my grandparents. That's because I barely even saw them.ernie1989
[QUOTE="ernie1989"]Yeah, I wouldn't know much about that type of stuff. I usually live under a rock long enough to miss the poor treatment to the old if there ever is any around here. I know I haven't done anything to my grandparents. That's because I barely even saw them.ernie1989
[QUOTE="ernie1989"][QUOTE="ernie1989"]Yeah, I wouldn't know much about that type of stuff. I usually live under a rock long enough to miss the poor treatment to the old if there ever is any around here. I know I haven't done anything to my grandparents. That's because I barely even saw them.JapaneseLeader
im pretty sick of hearing about all these isms. they have nursing homes, and a lot of elders are living with their children now. i dont see any ageism here, but i agree nursing homes are like a concentration camp with pills and sweaters.Do you think America is an ageism country??
It seems that this nation overprotect the rights of kids while it neglects so many needs of elders.
and elders who live in US tend to feel more depressed and disrespected that those who live in EAST ASIA.
JapaneseLeader
[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"]im pretty sick of hearing about all these isms. they have nursing homes, and a lot of elders are living with their children now. i dont see any ageism here, but i agree nursing homes are like a concentration camp with pills and sweaters. I understand that they have DIY nursing homes; however, I see many elders do not have the same access as our youngsters to many programs in our nation... and many elders are not being treated as youngsters....that is very ageist~~~~~is that why elders die quickly in here?Do you think America is an ageism country??
It seems that this nation overprotect the rights of kids while it neglects so many needs of elders.
and elders who live in US tend to feel more depressed and disrespected that those who live in EAST ASIA.
im_very_kind
Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classnohabsI am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders.
[QUOTE="nohabs"]Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classJapaneseLeaderI am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders. I know what you mean, people kind of, like, just dont bother with them, or respect them. I see it a few times, but i always keep in contact with my Gran. Also Grandparents are better than parents, they give give you stuff for no reason
[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="nohabs"]Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classliquid_sI am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders. I know what you mean, people kind of, like, just dont bother with them, or respect them. I see it a few times, but i always keep in contact with my Gran. Also Grandparents are better than parents, they give give you stuff for no reason And I can tell you that 99% of Asians coming from Japan and Taiwan have strong respects toward elders than other races.
[QUOTE="WestSideAzn"]Well there is quite a disrespect for the elderly nowadays because, I don't know... we just take the elderly for granted, even though we are going to be like that one day...JapaneseLeaderI know In Japan and China, young people respect elders a lot more... I just feel that old people deserve the same carings as other people... and I do not really understand why are Americans so caring to kids, which is the opposite way in Asia.
I agree, but children are the future and not the elderly.
I respect my elders, but old people in general annoy me.guthwulf_deWhat did they do that annoyed you? And my regard to another poster, I do not care who are the future, I care about the proper attitude. It makes me feel you are one of those ageist people
[QUOTE="guthwulf_de"]I respect my elders, but old people in general annoy me.JapaneseLeaderWhat did they do that annoyed you? And my regard to another poster, I do not care who are the future, I care about the proper attitude. It makes me feel you are one of those ageist people
[QUOTE="nohabs"]Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classJapaneseLeaderI am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders.
That's what I was implying. I visit my wife's parents at the nursing home and you would be amazed how many old folks are left there without any family visitors
I am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders.[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="nohabs"]Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classnohabs
That's what I was implying. I visit my wife's parents at the nursing home and you would be amazed how many old folks are left there without any family visitors
First of all, it is always better to drive slowly on the streets. Now my response to your comment: Are you saying your wife rarely looks after her parents that she just ignores them in their home?Good points op, I agree, socioty as a whole should pay more attention to elders.yoshi-lnexThere are only 2 countries that really put a lot of efforts on helping elders: Singapore and Japan.... and I rather be in a place where is made up of elder populations.
[QUOTE="nohabs"]I am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders.[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="nohabs"]Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classJapaneseLeader
That's what I was implying. I visit my wife's parents at the nursing home and you would be amazed how many old folks are left there without any family visitors
First of all, it is always better to drive slowly on the streets. Now my response to your comment: Are you saying your wife rarely looks after her parents that she just ignores them in their home?No She visits them all the time. The other people that live there get no visitors, it's really sad to see
[QUOTE="yoshi-lnex"]Good points op, I agree, socioty as a whole should pay more attention to elders.JapaneseLeaderThere are only 2 countries that really put a lot of efforts on helping elders: Singapore and Japan.... and I rather be in a place where is made up of elder populations. Eastern countrys in general respect elders alot, this is primarily becouse of the most influential man to the region, the great philosopher confucious who stressed the importance of certain relationships in socioty, and respect towards elders was one of them....
[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="nohabs"]I am sure the modern elders are capabloe of taking care of themselves compared to the elders decades ago considering our medications have improved. However, I am talking about the social attitude toward elders.[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="nohabs"]Today's younger people are more into their own lives not their grandparents or parents. They don't have the time for them, why they might miss the Yoga classnohabs
That's what I was implying. I visit my wife's parents at the nursing home and you would be amazed how many old folks are left there without any family visitors
First of all, it is always better to drive slowly on the streets. Now my response to your comment: Are you saying your wife rarely looks after her parents that she just ignores them in their home?No She visits them all the time. The other people that live there get no visitors, it's really sad to see
I guess the place where your wife's parents reside must be a suburb place, right?[QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="yoshi-lnex"]Good points op, I agree, socioty as a whole should pay more attention to elders.yoshi-lnexThere are only 2 countries that really put a lot of efforts on helping elders: Singapore and Japan.... and I rather be in a place where is made up of elder populations. Eastern countrys in general respect elders alot, this is primarily becouse of the most influential man to the region, the great philosopher confucious who stressed the importance of certain relationships in socioty, and respect towards elders was one of them.... Which most Americans lack. Sad but true
No She visits them all the time. The other people that live there get no visitors, it's really sad to see
I guess the place where your wife's parents reside must be a suburb place, right?Well it's right on the edge of the city. But most of the nursing homes are in the suburbs, at least here.
[QUOTE="yoshi-lnex"][QUOTE="JapaneseLeader"][QUOTE="yoshi-lnex"]Good points op, I agree, socioty as a whole should pay more attention to elders.JapaneseLeaderThere are only 2 countries that really put a lot of efforts on helping elders: Singapore and Japan.... and I rather be in a place where is made up of elder populations. Eastern countrys in general respect elders alot, this is primarily becouse of the most influential man to the region, the great philosopher confucious who stressed the importance of certain relationships in socioty, and respect towards elders was one of them.... Which most Americans lack. Sad but true Yeah.....it'll probably get better though as socioty develops a bit more.....
I don't know if this is true, I find that Mexican people r much more respective to their elders than whitez?JapaneseLeaderMaybe, they are more respectful of the deceased for cultural reasons.....
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