@gamerguru100 said:
I have no friends. I was never interested in trying to contact high school acquaintances through social media either. I have no Facebook, no Twitter, no nothing. Just me and my PS3. The only "friend" I have is a guy on my PSN friends list that I talk to every once and a while.
And I'm not bothered by it either. In fact, it all seems draining to have a bunch of people constantly texting you or posting messages on your Facebook or Twitter feed and trying to keep up with it all.
Do you have no friends either?
Im pretty similar.
I havent really had any friends in 4+ years. Tho I did have a girl friend for a year of those 4 years, so...
but no i dont have friends. No one really talks to me and no one ever invites me for anything. Even when i had friends back in the day, I was always treated like a partial outsider. Im not an interesting guy either and i dont have anything or money to go do things, so i cant even invite people to go do things with me.
I dont have much of a family at all either, only one older brother but meh... no cousins or anything, not even grandparents. So I was always kinda raise alone. Im not a loner and im not an extrovert I like being around people and socializing. People always say im really friendly and nice. But all the people I met are just acquaintances and casual cool people I just interact with becuz of the location we are in (school, work, and thats about it). No one texts me and I never have anything interesting to say to text some body. I get like 2 text a month. And like 1 phone call ever other month.
I dont drink or smoke, so alot of time (I can tell) some people Im cool with just start to not interact with me any more cuz they are into drinking partying and smoking weed, so they find me boring.
It always been like this for me. Im too poor for some people or Im too boring for some people. My other problem is that Im not stupid or into stupid things. I dont connect with my generation or people my age, Im not into much of anything or know the stuff my generation are into or do.
Im 22, so most people my age all already have their buddies and circle of friends.
Like you Im kinda fine with it. Im not sad about it or think Im such a loner who will always be alone. But at the same time I kinda dont make that much of an effort any more becuz of the several bullshit back stab experiences I've had. For Example, this guy, a female friend and i had been planning to go to this canoeing/rockclimbing/nature park during the summer. Because of the girl and her scheduling we never could get a set date. Then the new fall semester for school started and 2 weeks into semester, I see pictures of them two and 3 other people on facebook of all of them who had just went to the canoeing/rockclimbing/nature park place. Really? what the ****? Not only was that my idea that i proposed during the summer several times and had invited them but also try to coordinate with them 4 different times about going there.
Shit like this has happened to me several times. So I drop them. I used to stick around people who where dicks to me, now I drop them easily. I had a friend that I became really cool with for about 7 months. He had just came from Africa and had only been in the US for a year. In March of this year my cat died, not only did he make fun of my cat dying three times to my face, but he also did it to me over the phone, on facebook, and on his birthday in in front of my girlfriend at the time. So I simply loosen the ties with him and he never really try to contact me or anything either. I had also noticed before that he would only really contact me and hang out with me when he was bored or needed help with something, not when he was out partying and going places. Friends like that I drop them now with ease.
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