Do you ever worry that your life won't turn out well?

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#1 KittyHeart
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sometimes i worry about that

with the slugish econolmy now, ti is hard to find jobs and suport yourself/family; hopefuly the economy will be better later

i was tlaking w/ some friends of mine, and one of the their biggest fears is beign unscussful after college; i fear that too , many peopel do, it's common

do you ever think about your future, whta will happen out of college, and do you ever worry that what if... things dont go so well with yruo life?

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#2 BiancaDK
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i set the bar so low, i know i´ll succeed almost regardless of whatever outcomes might be thrown my way (short of dying, flat out)

so i guess no, i´m not worried at all

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#3 X360PS3AMD05
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I'm more worried about actually living.
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#4 Kamobo
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The moment you start worry you have already lost. Start setting up a goal for yourself and start working towards it; no matter what happens in the world - let hell break lose - you won't deter from your path. That is the path of the ninja.. I'm sorry, I had to. Seriously though - understand what you are worth in this society. You are worth as much as you can produce (or your salary). Don't let this idea depress you, rather let it move you to action. Start by considering yourself as a corporation, or a brand. Select a niche and develop the skills necessary. The RL world is very similar to a battle field - the unfit are left behind starving or dead - unless you define who you are and how you are going to win.. you will lose. Play life as a game, because it is.
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#5 KHAndAnime
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Not a day goes by without me worried for the future. I think I'll be fine though. Being a senior in high school, I honestly don't know anyone who wants to do what I want to do - so hopefully my position is secure. I'm just not exactly sure what that position will be yet.

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#6 gamerpipe
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sometimes i worry about that

with the slugish econolmy now, ti is hard to find jobs and suport yourself/family; hopefuly the economy will be better later

i was tlaking w/ some friends of mine, and one of the their biggest fears is beign unscussful after college; i fear that too , many peopel do, it's common

do you ever think about your future, whta will happen out of college, and do you ever worry that what if... things dont go so well with yruo life?

KittyHeart
It is too early for you to do that. it is best for now, to expect success and work for it. it is not nice to feel depressed now and worry about future. keep that until marriage. when you have ambitions and work for them, you have better chance of success. just don't follow the Heenes family path.
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#7 TallGuyCS
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As long as there is a free market and capitalism is alive and well, then yes the sky is the limit. Take that away, and then I'd start to worry.

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#8 Nifty_Shark
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Not really. I may not have the financial success my father has/had but I think I'll eventually get to better places in that regard.

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#9 optiow
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I do sometimes. Sometimes it seems like obtaining my dreams will be so easy, and at other times it seems impossible. But ultimately I know I will do well in life.
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#10 shoot-first
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Once in a while but, I try and not think too far ahead. Also, my post count atm is the last four digits on my cell #! lulz 6960! XD

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#11 dracula_16
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All the time. It's the biggest reason why I developed depression, and it's one of the reasons why I'm hesitant to try new things.

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#12 JasonDarksavior
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Yeah, I worry. I've watched a movie and it had a very good quote in it, I think it's something like you can't see what tomorow brings so make the most of every day. That quote is good I think, and makes me make the most of my day.

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#13 aero250
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I'm young, but i think about my future all the time.
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#14 Arctic_Grillz
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Right now yes, I have to make a decision whether to continue studying here or study back in my country, cant decide which to choose because each will have a big impact on my future.
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#15 Eliminator666
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I'm just living my life so I don't give a **** about anything.
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#16 the_kidisblack
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I always do. Heading into my final year, hopefully aiming to get into Law/Arts, I was always wonder what might happen if I don't get the score I need.
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#17 Fantasticus
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i don't worry about that b/c i am currently living off of my grandparents' fortune fortunately :D
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#18 Bedizen
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I have alrady walked down that dark alley, luckily I was able to turn it around and have become a respectable citizen :P

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#19 Darkman2007
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who isnt concerned about their future?, I always worry because I tend to be a bit pessimistic about things

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#20 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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Yeah, all the time for many reasons.
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#21 XileLord
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Seeing as how I've dropped out of school, then went back and then dropped out again to do my education at home, i am always constantly thinking my life wont ever turn out well. Lucky i have a really pretty girlfriend and a supportive family but as far as friends go I've lost contact with them all. I'm almost a year and a half behind in school and feel like I'm wasting everyday doing absolutely nothing, not only that but I'm on social anxiety meds because i can't stand being in public without the feeling of suffocation, luckily they are helping me a lot.

So do i ever worry that my life won't turn out well? All the time but it's best to be optimistic because if you expect bad things then you end up with bad things.

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#22 Evil_Saluki
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Im already past college and living that life thing.

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#24 Kenbo325
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I'm always wondering what will happen in the future, but I'm not exactly worrying about it.
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#25 HipYoungster42
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Nah, I never worry one bit. I know God's got his eye on me.8)

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#26 hopelessloser
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All the time. Eventually learn you can't figure out the point of everything and make the best of what you've got. Unfortunately that almost always doesn't solve the fact that you want something better. There is help out there though, medications, doctors, etc. though I wouldn't blame you if you rejected them I have for years though I'm about to turn myself in because I can't stand losing myself anymore.

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#27 Xraine
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I used to but now I'm just trying to live :)

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#28 clyde46
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Well the fact is I have no money and the rent is due. I'm not holding out much hope.

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#29 MagikarpSplash
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Every now and then yeah.
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#30 XenoLair
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Well no... Ive always got a plan B and Im as pessimistic as you can get. Worst case I go live in a poor country and work to live (why a poor country? - easier to survive by earning less), I wouldnt b!tch about it cause i have low standards xD and theres always more to life than money. And by the way, millions of people today work to survive, i guess you have to have low standards and if youre not spoiled now, its not gonna be a problem to get trough life.

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#31 Bourbons3
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I do worry about it sometimes. But I try not to have too high hopes.
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#32 DigitalExile
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Yeah, all the time for many reasons.t3hrubikscube
Pretty much this.

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#33 daqua_99
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I'm not worried about my life turning out bad.

The worst that could happen (besides being put in prison or being disabled) would be me becoming a high school teacher. I'd get my degree, not make it in the private sector, then go back to uni and get a qualification to become a teacher in the humanities. Or I would continue with the job I'm doing now, working my way up the ladder to eventually become a store manager (or regional manager, it just depends). They are prob my lowest 2 scenarios career-wise

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#34 StudySession
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I woke up this morning worrying about being unsuccessful after collage. This thread makes me feel better.

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#35 BiancaDK
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Well the fact is I have no money and the rent is due. I'm not holding out much hope.

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Borrow from bank/family/friends or Get a job/Better job that has a 14 day payment plan! Gooooo...!
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#36 Ceneb
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I'm on a good track and I get good grades so I do think that I'll be fine.

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#37 super_mario_128
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Yes I am. I worry that my life will turn out boring and unremarkable.
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#38 Immortalica
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Yeah, sometimes I think I'm done for, but it's been getting better. I've been trying to get out and do more and get my life straight I guess. All you have to do is tell yourself, everything is alright, and if you keep trying at what you want, you will be happy.
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#39 The_Last_Ride
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nah not really, i was hoping to become a football player (proffesionals), but i am not worried
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#40 kate_jones
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As long as your happy, nothing else matters.

If you die having had more good days than bad days, then you had a good life.

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#41 Ontain
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my live has turned out pretty well so i don't worry too much anymore.
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#42 fastesttruck
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Right now my only fear is I won't find someone to get a house with and I'll be stuck living at home all my life.
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#43 ernie1989
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I don't worry about it.

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#44 Guybrush_3
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All of the time. I am very intellegent but I have so much wrong with me that I am struggling just to finish college. I am worried about being able to hold a real job in the real world. I also worry about not being able to find a girl that can handle the fact that I'm not the most stable person in the world.

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#45 KittyHeart
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a lot of you guys are soooo worry-free! im surprsied

:P

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#46 sonic__323
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Yes, everyday actually.

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#47 thriteenthmonke
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All the time.
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#48 FFCYAN
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I'm alive, strong and healthy. That's the best I can hope for.