So there seems to be a lot of people who point to the rise in divorce rates throughout the country as evidence of marriage being valued less by the current generations of Americans. However I was reading an article on cracked which pointed out that marriages use to be far shorter than that of today. In fact most marriages ended in death, but this was due more to the fact that people didn't live as long as they do today. The real reason people fall out of love more often today is that they now live long enough to conclude that their marriages can't be sustained for another 40-50 years. Before increase in life expectancy people often died in their 20s and 30s leaving their partner single, and available to look for new people to have sex with and be in relationships with.
In my opinion this makes more sense than the idea of "Cultures losing family values" that we tend to hear about semi-regularly. At this point I have witnessed far too many people I know get married and they intend to stay married to really believe that marriage doesn't really mean all that much to them. However if 40 years were to pass and those same people were no longer able to enjoy each others company and were essentially shutting each other out it would be fairly understandable to me that they still believe in a strong relationship between two people, but that they no longer had that for themselves with their current marriage.
What do you guys think? Do people care less about marriage in this day and age or has the length of the commitment increased so much that the commitment just far less likely to remain true for people?
a couple of other links on this subject below.
http://www.neillneill.com/divorce-replaces-death-as-marriage-ender
https://books.google.com/books?id=pucEAQAAIAAJ&vq=death&pg=PA986&hl=en#v=onepage&q=death&f=false
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