Ok so here is the rundown.
I work for a japanese company, my job is warehouse work. I typically interract with an admin clerk that comes in several times in a day to check orders outgoing that i ship to customers. This is usually a female in 20s out of college. I had some personal issues with the previous one that left the company a few years ago. Long story short, she came here not knowing anyone from out of town and wanted to meet people. I extended invitations into my home so she could meet new friends through my wife's circle. She was nice and friendly with me at work for a while until an event came along that didnt expressly benefit her (drinks for my birthday). A mutial friend/coworker invited her out for that. Not only did she back out after first agreeing to go, she didnt even bother telling me she wasnt going to show up.
I didnt talk to her for a while after that and things were off and on like this for the next few years at work. We would talk and so forth at work at times until some other insult came along that pissed me off again. We had a group of coworkers that we were both friends with and that would obviously make for awkward situations as well because neither one of us would stop going out to lunches and dinner even if the other person was around.
At one point, she left the company and i wasnt on speaking terms with her at all during that time. She met someone on a business trip here and married that guy and i assume that was why she left and went back to japan. Now my company typically cycles out its management and sales personel with employees from japan. Turns out, my new boss is her husband.
He's been here for about a month now and as far as i can tell, he doesnt have any issues with me but then i guess i can never really know that for certain. In any case she did of course eventually arrive here at the office like i thought she eventually might, and strolled back into the warehouse to ask me how i've been or how my family is doing. Of course i've known for some time she doesnt actually care about me, so i didnt feel inclined to respond to her nonsense. I just answered all of her questions with "they're fine". This was right in front of her husband too becausehe's introducing her to everybody in the office individually.
I'm not really sure what i should do. Look for another job maybe? Has anyone been in some kind of similar situation or have any advice?
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