at most times i am taking things seriously! one needs to be aware of what he doing in my opinion. i mean no need to do things in blind/rush/carefree manner.
i am 26 without a decent enough job, besides its time for me to get married according to my mom, regardless to the fact that i am in one-sided love situation, i cannot afford to get married with the current income, and as soon as i get my anticipated new job there will be another issue as i have been given ultimatem by mom to meet the girl i love and decide things straight cause she will be looking to response those parents whom have asked my father about me and also for some other girls in the caste. so yeah i cannot be just feel lightly and i have to take things pratically and seriously. there is no ease in such tense situations. thats why i said situations can make anyone change their lightly attitude towards life.
I have no illusions or ideals because they have been crushed by what I've seen of the system. I'm not interested in art anymore. You are either a business success or business failure. end
i am 26 without a decent enough job, besides its time for me to get married according to my mom, regardless to the fact that i am in one-sided love situation, i cannot afford to get married with the current income, and as soon as i get my anticipated new job there will be another issue as i have been given ultimatem by mom to meet the girl i love and decide things straight cause she will be looking to response those parents whom have asked my father about me and also for some other girls in the caste. so yeah i cannot be just feel lightly and i have to take things pratically and seriously. there is no ease in such tense situations. thats why i said situations can make anyone change their lightly attitude towards life.GrandSlasher26
[QUOTE="GrandSlasher26"]i am 26 without a decent enough job, besides its time for me to get married according to my mom, regardless to the fact that i am in one-sided love situation, i cannot afford to get married with the current income, and as soon as i get my anticipated new job there will be another issue as i have been given ultimatem by mom to meet the girl i love and decide things straight cause she will be looking to response those parents whom have asked my father about me and also for some other girls in the caste. so yeah i cannot be just feel lightly and i have to take things pratically and seriously. there is no ease in such tense situations. thats why i said situations can make anyone change their lightly attitude towards life. The reason why your mom wants you to get married is because it's a stamp of approval. You can only get that from a woman.
office assistant> 3day my mom always shouts at me when i play games, telling me that i am 26 and i should a car and lots of cash by now. i get angry cause its not in one's hands to be rich, my mom even compares me with others especially some of my old friends as they are at a better situation then me financially. what makes me angry is the fact that she does not understand that i too feel that i wanna get married (to her ofcourse) and get rich fast as i am in already in love. so i must be trying my best. besides i have a proprietory firm an export license is what i have to be precise. i am trying but nothing gives me success. whats more worse is that according to some astrologers i need to get married to have my luck open. give me a break.
office assistant> 3day my mom always shouts at me when i play games, telling me that i am 26 and i should a car and lots of cash by now. i get angry cause its not in one's hands to be rich, my mom even compares me with others especially some of my old friends as they are at a better situation then me financially.
what makes me angry is the fact that she does not understand that i too feel that i wanna get married (to her ofcourse) and get rich fast as i am in already in love. so i must be trying my best.
besides i have a proprietory firm an export license is what i have to be precise. i am trying but nothing gives me success.
whats more worse is that according to some astrologers i need to get married to have my luck open. give me a break.GrandSlasher26
so what basic?! the thing which matters most is whether the person you care to get married with cares to get married to you or not. well my basic logic is simple bad times/situations = serious approach in life = sadness at most times.
well never mind my situation is of one-sided in love. now i am not gonna cry and shout about it everytime, i am devoted to Lord Krishna, Its all upto Sri Vishnu's wish pal. infact everything in this entire world is upto god. only this fact relaxes me.
[QUOTE="GrandSlasher26"]well never mind my situation is of one-sided in love. now i am not gonna cry and shout about it everytime, i am devoted to Lord Krishna, Its all upto Sri Vishnu's wish pal. infact everything in this entire world is upto god. only this fact relaxes me. Ok you you are moral person. that and a dime will get a cup of coffee. I'm a moral person too and thats why I have lost my illusions about the system. You are either a buisness succes or failure and your mom wants you to get married because that is a stamp of approval. Make her proud.
my small brother i earning way more then me, so why not get him married if my mom wants a daughter in-law?! that what i have always complained, but there is a tradition here that big brother will have to marry first. my bro is 22 already. all my mom wants is to have beautiful daughter in-law in the family. and to help her in kitchen and all other household works really but mostly to have a new company. basically its not a good idea to get married without proper income, and besides i ain't marrying no one but her.
[QUOTE="GrandSlasher26"]my small brother i earning way more then me, so why not get him married if my mom wants a daughter in-law?! that what i have always complained, but there is a tradition here that big brother will have to marry first. my bro is 22 already. all my mom wants is to have beautiful daughter in-law in the family. and to help her in kitchen and all other household works really but mostly to have a new company. basically its not a good idea to get married without proper income, and besides i ain't marrying no one but her. You can move somewhere and clear your head and be a business success and get married and the people that matter will approve. What is your family? It's your first hub. There are other hubs beyond it. You can make your own hub or family and be a secret spy.
yeah there are many ideas basic, but where do i go with my income?! go and live in a street and sleep in benches?! its all seen in movies by me but i do not think i want that struggle in my life. i hate the situation of struggle really. effort is ok but not hard struggles. my head is fine really. all i need is that decent job or a good start to my business so that i can convince the girl's father that i can keep his daughter happy and mostly she too will be impresses i start earning great income. its all about money in my opinion. i think money can even buy true love. on a /note i earned 50 rs this morning today.
yeah there are many ideas basic, but where do i go with my income?! go and live in a street and sleep in benches?! its all seen in movies by me but i do not think i want that struggle in my life. i hate the situation of struggle really. effort is ok but not hard struggles. my head is fine really. all i need is that decent job or a good start to my business so that i can convince the girl's father that i can keep his daughter happy and mostly she too will be impresses i start earning great income. its all about money in my opinion. i think money can even buy true love. on a /note i earned 50 rs this morning today.GrandSlasher26
I dont think it will buy you love, but it will make you much more confident, and help you get her
yes 3day thats exactly i thought it would do making me enough confident to visit her house. and giving me a better chance at marrying her. eventhough it may not be all about money but i think 70% of everyone's life problems consists of me and only money can solve it. on a /note i did not meant to say those 50 rs. i was talking about the office assistant job ofcourse.
[QUOTE="GrandSlasher26"]yeah there are many ideas basic, but where do i go with my income?! go and live in a street and sleep in benches?! its all seen in movies by me but i do not think i want that struggle in my life. i hate the situation of struggle really. effort is ok but not hard struggles. my head is fine really. all i need is that decent job or a good start to my business so that i can convince the girl's father that i can keep his daughter happy and mostly she too will be impresses i start earning great income. its all about money in my opinion. i think money can even buy true love. on a /note i earned 50 rs this morning today. Life is full of struggle. You are a moral person. Ok what do you do now? You suffer? Yes. You don't know what is out there yet.
basic thats what most people including old friends of mine tell me, they say i am innocent and yet to see the way world is.GrandSlasher26
They are telling you what the see and hear. I'm telling you the same. Your mother is telling you the same as your friends about getting a wife. Many wifes do the finances and will dress you.
o well losing pure love cannot be adjusted in life according to me. sure i have heard just be rich and there will plenty of better girls then her running around you, but no i want only her. i might be immature about most things, but still i am nto missing on much according to me. some call it fantasy but now i am just thinking positively and trying to relax. right now i am having a fantasy thought that she is sitting next to me! i guess best option will be to take life easily and be serious as per the situation.
[QUOTE="GrandSlasher26"]o well losing pure love cannot be adjusted in life according to me. sure i have heard just be rich and there will plenty of better girls then her running around you, but no i want only her. i might be immature about most things, but still i am nto missing on much according to me. some call it fantasy but now i am just thinking positively and trying to relax. right now i am having a fantasy thought that she is sitting next to me! i guess best option will be to take life easily and be serious as per the situation. You tell yourself that, you aren't asking for opinions anymore here on these boards. Just try to be accurate in what you see and tell others.
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