I've been trying to promote equality ever since a year ago or so after a co-worker bitched at me and was offended that I held the door open for her. I decided to stop getting up and giving women my seat on the subway which has been the best decision. they benefit because they're treated equally and I get to keep my seat. win/win.
give them their videogames, salaries or whatever they want and give men the ability to give return punches. it's best to be fair.
I personally think holding doors open for women because they are a woman is class A stupid but I get a LOT of hate for that so I just do it and try to shut up about it.
I agree, but it was how I was raised. let me tell ya... I never held the door open for her again which saved me both time and effort (even if minimal).